Lately, I’m always realizing myself being caught up between two lovers at war. I just want to make this clear ahh, Hindi ako third party dun ah. hahaha. Oh well let’s proceed.

Kahit kasi hindi ko sadyain talagang napupunta sila sa akin para makipagusap. I don’t know may be because I’m not bias or one sided when it comes to advising someone kaya siguro parating natataon na ako ang gusto nilang kausapin.

Syempre I gave all my best para magbigay ng advice sa mga kaibigan ko. Pero I’m considering few things. Before solving any kind of problems i think you should consider these things first.

Know / Realize your mistakes.

Lets accept the fact that if there’s a problem there must me something who brought up the problem. Hindi yun kabuteng bigla nalang susulpot at maninira ng relasyon. Whether it is yourself or other entities. In that case you have to know your mistakes and assess everything. Don’t prejudge anyone unless you really know the whole story. Second is;

Try to lower your pride and talk one on one.

You know what, sometimes it is stupid to think that your relationship might end up fucked up because your pride was up to the ceiling. If you can’t swallow your pride to revive everything you have, walang kwentang tao ka. Yung tipong mas gugustuhin mo pang mawala ang isang tao dahil ayaw mo lang bumaba ang pride mo. Bakit you were scared to think na abusuhin ng taong yun ang pride mo? Kahit na alam mong hindi mo kayang mawala siya hahayaan mo lang na umalis siya at wag pigilan kasi you’re ego might get hurt and you feel you gonna be a lesser person by doing such thing? Think ok. Before doing any stupid things.

Accept things even if the situation is not in favor of you.

The situation will not always favorable to you. Learn to accept things no matter how painful it might be and solve your problems. But accepting lalo na sa love is not an easy thing to do. Maraming tao ang hindi pumipili na i-accept ang mga bagay na nakasakit sa kanila. It takes time and effort. But what you are actually avoiding is the key to free your heart from pain. Acceptance is the only way for your heart to heal. Hanapin mo ang kasagutan sa sarili mo at makakatulong ang acceptance para mawala ang sakit at bitterness.

Once na nagawa mo na ito, malalaman mo na mas marami pang magagandang bagay na naghihintay sayo. Life is so short if you let yourself dwell in the past you will not see the future and be able to move forward. Keep that in mind.

Kasi ito yung mga mas lalong nagpapalala ng situation eh yung simpleng pagmamaang maangan sa mga mistakes na nagawa nila at sa pag tatakpan nito sa pamamagitan ng isa pang lie. Eventually all the lies you stack will fall down straight on your face. At pag naging malala na ang situation gagamitan mo pa ng pride mo. I’m telling you it will not help and it will not solve any problem. All you need to do is to accept everything and leave all the pain in the past. Stand up and start walking forward and be ready for the next challenge especially sa love.

“Ohh ayan. Ganyan ang ginagawa kong pag aadvice sa mga taong nagagawi sa akin at nagkkwento ng mga buhay buhay. Those are just simple steps ok, na sariling explanation ko. Marami pa talagang situation na mas malala pa at kailangan ng matinding pangunawa. Kasi wala ka talagang maiintindihan kung hindi bukas ang isip mo at malawak ang pag-iisip. Walang mareresolbang problema kung walang pangunawa at effort.

Hays hehe eto na naman ako pa advice advice pa. Pero pag sarili ko na ang involve sa situation nawawala lahat ng yan. Bumabagal ang mga neurons ko at na-bobobo sa mga nangayayari. Pero hindi ko nakakalimutan na maging mapang unawa.

Pero ganon nga ata talaga sa pag-ibig nabobobo hays. Sa tingin mo? Tama diba?”